6 Key Community Conversations and the Questions That Transform Them – SASM 100
We're one people when we're in community together.
Even if it's temporary, even if it's fleeting – community is about bringing people together to co-create.
To share a sense of ownership of something big. To believe in possibilities that were previously impossible and make some of those impossibilities reality.
I didn't believe it was possible to plod my way along to 100 episodes of Smart and Simple Matters – but I did it with this one! And you know why I kept going when I wanted to quit? You know what kept me afloat when slow and steady felt like a burden rather than a gift?
As in you – the community behind, around, and leading the spirit behind Smart and Simple Matters. The people who also help to create simple-living communities, live intentionally, build authentic relationships, and have tons of gratitude.
This milestone episode is a celebration of you and the conversation we have – or can start having – as a community. So I've taken the framework from one of my favorite resources about community, Peter Block's Community: The Structure of Belonging, and invite you to weave a new tapestry of connection wherever you go.
I'll be talking about six key conversations we can have together and the powerful questions that move us forward without retribution, rebellion, or resignation. We'll focus on your gifts, owning how awesome they are, and finding new ways to give them to those who need them the most.
And if it turns out you want to say “No” to this episode or what many of us are co-creating here, that's all-to-the-good. Because as Block says:
“If we can't say no, then our yes has no meaning.”
Press play and let's start celebrating you!
You're about to Learn ...
- Why community becomes a bigger deal the more you don't have it.
- The 3 qualities of a great question for any community setting.
- Which of the 6 crucial conversations you need to have in your community.
- What community means to me … and some new possibilities for you.
- What amazing people have influenced my generous, community-focused life.
- The down side – maybe even dark side – of community and why it often sucks.
- Why community citizens have to cultivate the future (don't wait, beg, or dream for it).
- Why our “Yes” has no meaning if we can't say “No.”
- Why none of us is strong enough to carry the dead weight of others.
Resources and Items Mentioned in This Episode
- Share More, Own Less, and Join the Economy of Human Connection with Sash Milne – SASM 077
- 4 “C”s of Gross National Happiness and Study Circles with Cecile Andrews – SASM 055
- How Rich I Am, What Angers Me, and the Mess I'm Withholding from You – SASM 081
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Timestamps and Topics
- [03:59] The sheer power and context of community
- [13:19] The often invisible pillars of community
- [21:03] My experiences using Community questions at local gatherings
- [23:44] How to invite others to your community
- [26:19] Possibility: questions for the community conversation
- [36:57] Ownership: questions for the community conversation
- [40:07] Dissent: questions for the community conversation
- [49:12] Commitment: questions for the community conversation
- [52:09] Gifts: questions for the community conversation
- [56:41] Recapping the six conversations and an invitation to you
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